During consultations, I ask my lovely brides what their vision is for their wedding day.  Believe it or not, nearly half of them really have no idea.  They say things like "I want it to look pretty" or "Purple is my favorite color," but beyond that, they are lost.  Luckily, I have put together some pearls of wisdom to help guide those of you who need some expert direction. 

Let your location/venue/season be your guide - If you are doing a destination wedding in Hawaii, a tropical beach motif with aqua blue, sandy beige, with a pop of sunshine yellow would be perfect.  If your venue is at an upscale hotel downtown in the winter, a custom monogram motif with a palette of pewter, slate blue, and red would be most appropriate (and absolutely gorgeous!).

Consider your fiance’s vision - These days there has been a rise in the number of grooms who have opinions about wedding details and are actively involved in the planning process.  And why shouldn't they?  It is their wedding, too, and if they are financially contributing to it, their opinions should carry quite a bit of weight.  Check with your groom to see how much he would like to be involved in the planning process and have him help you decide on a theme and colors for your big day.  He just might surprise you.

The Jour L'Amour Inspiration Kit - I provide all of my brides with a digital copy of the Jour L'Amour eBook that includes an Inspiration Kit.  It has examples of different themes and color combinations to help you visualize what your wedding day could look like.  Men are very visual creatures, so if you suggest a "Love Birds" theme with shades of purple & green, he may have a hard time imagining what that looks like, but if you have an example to show him, he can give you more confident feedback.  Interested in seeing the Inspiration Kit?  Contact us to schedule a complimentary consultation.

Above all else, make sure that what you decide reflects what makes you and your fiance unique, both as individuals and as a couple. Keep in mind that you'll have pictures (and hopefully video) from your wedding day for the rest of your life and you'll be sharing it with friends, family, and your future children & grandchildren, so don't do anything you might regret in 20 years.